Showing posts with label Memorial Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Memorial Day. Show all posts

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Memorial Day

I was doing some research about Memorial Day and ran across this link which provides a plethora of information about Memorial Day.

Memorial Day was originally called Decoration Day and dates back to Civil War times when ladies in the south would decorate the graves of the fallen.  Memorial Day, originally called Decoration Day, is a day of remembrance for those who have died in our nation's service.

General John Logan, national commander of the Grand Army of the Republic, first proclaimed Memorial Day on May 5, 1868 in Washington, DC by his General Order No. 11.  It was first observed on May 30, 1868 when flowers were placed on the graves of Union and Confederate soldiers at Arlington National Cemetery. The first state to officially recognize the holiday was New York in 1873. By 1890 it was recognized by all of the northern states. The South refused to acknowledge the day, honoring their dead on separate days until after World War I (when the holiday changed from honoring just those who died fighting in the Civil War to honoring Americans who died fighting in any war).

General Logan's General Order No 11 reads:

"HEADQUARTERS GRAND ARMY OF THE REPUBLIC
General Orders No.11, WASHINGTON, D.C., May 5, 1868
  1. The 30th day of May, 1868, is designated for the purpose of strewing with flowers or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village, and hamlet church-yard in the land. In this observance no form of ceremony is prescribed, but posts and comrades will in their own way arrange such fitting services and testimonials of respect as circumstances may permit. We are organized, comrades, as our regulations tell us, for the purpose among other things, "of preserving and strengthening those kind and fraternal feelings which have bound together the soldiers, sailors, and marines who united to suppress the late rebellion." What can aid more to assure this result than cherishing tenderly the memory of our heroic dead, who made their breasts a barricade between our country and its foes? Their soldier lives were the reveille of freedom to a race in chains, and their deaths the tattoo of rebellious tyranny in arms. We should guard their graves with sacred vigilance. All that the consecrated wealth and taste of the nation can add to their adornment and security is but a fitting tribute to the memory of her slain defenders. Let no wanton foot tread rudely on such hallowed grounds. Let pleasant paths invite the coming and going of reverent visitors and fond mourners. Let no vandalism of avarice or neglect, no ravages of time testify to the present or to the coming generations that we have forgotten as a people the cost of a free and undivided republic.
    If other eyes grow dull, other hands slack, and other hearts cold in the solemn trust, ours shall keep it well as long as the light and warmth of life remain to us.
    Let us, then, at the time appointed gather around their sacred remains and garland the passionless mounds above them with the choicest flowers of spring-time; let us raise above them the dear old flag they saved from hishonor; let us in this solemn presence renew our pledges to aid and assist those whom they have left among us a sacred charge upon a nation's gratitude, the soldier's and sailor's widow and orphan.

  2. It is the purpose of the Commander-in-Chief to inaugurate this observance with the hope that it will be kept up from year to year, while a survivor of the war remains to honor the memory of his departed comrades. He earnestly desires the public press to lend its friendly aid in bringing to the notice of comrades in all parts of the country in time for simultaneous compliance therewith.
  3. Department commanders will use efforts to make this order effective. By order of
    JOHN A. LOGAN,
    Commander-in-Chief

    N.P. CHIPMAN,
    Adjutant General

    Official:
    WM. T. COLLINS, A.A.G."
Nothing in General Logan's General Order talks about a three day weekend, hot dogs, retail store sales.  He talks about honoring and remembering our deceased war heroes.  Where did we get so lost about this day?  Throughout the history of our nation, men and women have answered the call to take up arms to defend us, our liberty and safety.  Yet these days way too many Americans don't even know the true meaning of Memorial Day.  It's just another three day weekend for fun.  Granted, I daresay those who have died in service to our nation would encourage us to take advantage of our freedom and to enjoy time with our families and friends.  However, how many Americans can name (or even care about) one, just one of our fallen heroes? 

Back to the article about Memorial Day -

Memorial Day is now celebrated in almost every State on the last Monday in May (passed by Congress with the National Holiday Act of 1971 (P.L. 90 - 363) to ensure a three day weekend for Federal holidays), though several southern states have an additional separate day for honoring the Confederate war dead: January 19 in Texas, April 26 in Alabama, Florida, Georgia, and Mississippi; May 10 in South Carolina; and June 3 (Jefferson Davis' birthday) in Louisiana and Tennessee.

Gee whiz, thank you Congress for making sure that all Federal employees get a three day weekend and for taking away the emphasis of Memorial Day.  Well done!

Back to the article -

Traditional observance of Memorial day has diminished over the years. Many Americans nowadays have forgotten the meaning and traditions of Memorial Day. At many cemeteries, the graves of the fallen are increasingly ignored, neglected. Most people no longer remember the proper flag etiquette for the day. While there are towns and cities that still hold Memorial Day parades, many have not held a parade in decades. Some people think the day is for honoring any and all dead, and not just those fallen in service to our country.

There are a few notable exceptions. Since the late 50's on the Thursday before Memorial Day, the 1,200 soldiers of the 3d U.S. Infantry place small American flags at each of the more than 260,000 gravestones at Arlington National Cemetery. They then patrol 24 hours a day during the weekend to ensure that each flag remains standing. In 1951, the Boy Scouts and Cub Scouts of St. Louis began placing flags on the 150,000 graves at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery as an annual Good Turn, a practice that continues to this day. More recently, beginning in 1998, on the Saturday before the observed day for Memorial Day, the Boys Scouts and Girl Scouts place a candle at each of approximately 15,300 grave sites of soldiers buried at Fredericksburg and Spotsylvania National Military Park on Marye's Heights (the Luminaria Program). And in 2004, Washington D.C. held its first Memorial Day parade in over 60 years.

To help re-educate and remind Americans of the true meaning of Memorial Day, the "National Moment of Remembrance" resolution was passed on Dec 2000 which asks that at 3 p.m. local time, for all Americans "To voluntarily and informally observe in their own way a Moment of remembrance and respect, pausing from whatever they are doing for a moment of silence or listening to 'Taps."

On January 19, 1999 Senator Inouye introduced bill S 189 to the Senate which proposes to restore the traditional day of observance of Memorial Day back to May 30th instead of "the last Monday in May". On April 19, 1999 Representative Gibbons introduced the bill to the House (H.R. 1474). The bills were referred the Committee on the Judiciary and the Committee on Government Reform. 

To date there have been no further developments on the bill although it was reintroduced by Senator Inouye in each sesson of Congress.

I hope that you will join me this Memorial Day by taking time out of your day to research and read about one or more of our Fallen Heroes.  It is the least we can do for them and their families.

Saturday, May 21, 2011

Memorial Day Events Tied to Our ROCK Paratroopers

As Memorial Day approaches I know of many events tied directly to the 173rd, 2-503rd.  I wish I could attend them all.  Since I cannot I want to at least mention them all here.  I hope that everyone has a safe and enjoyable Memorial Day weekend but please remember, this is a time to remember all of those who have given their lives on behalf of this great nation.

Beats for a Bench Veterans Memorial Benefit will be held on Saturday, May 21, from 4pm – 11pm at the Expo Center in Long Beach, 4321 Atlantic Avenue Long Beach CA. 

This is a memorial fundraiser being hosted for Sergeant Israel Garcia, who was killed in the battle of Wanat in Afghanistan in 2008. To acknowledge his sacrifice and accomplishments “Beats for a Bench,” will raise money for a memorial bench to honor Sgt Israel Garcia at his High School, Long Beach Poly. Additional funds raised at the event will support the Long Beach City College Veterans Group to create an on-campus memorial to honor veterans, and to US Vets towards helping them accomplish their goal of  "The suc­cess­ful tran­si­tion of mil­i­tary vet­er­ans and their fam­i­lies through the pro­vi­sion of hous­ing, coun­sel­ing, career devel­op­ment and com­pre­hen­sive support."



While it's not a Memorial Day event, Defenders of Freedom is hosting Tee It Up Fore The Troops at the Dallas Cowboy's Golf Course on Monday May 23rd.  Several former ROCK Paratroopers as well as men from 4-4, 3-61 CAV who survived the battle of COP Keating will be attending this incredible event along with many more Wounded Warriors and Veterans.  I am grateful to Donna Cranston and her organization for including them this year.

The field is full but there are still ways to support this incredible event.  More information can be found here.

On Tuesday May 24th family, colleagues and friends will gather in New York City to celebrate the life of Tim Hetherington.  Many ROCK Paratroopers will be in attendance at Tim's celebration of life.


Tim Hetherington - taken at OP Restrepo

On Saturday May 28th two events will take place to honor fallen members of the 173rd, 2-503rd from OEF VIII. 

CPL Jason Hovater, who died in the battle of Wanat, Afghanistan on 13 July 2008 will posthumously be presented the Silver Star for his actions that day.  CPL Hovater had been awarded the BSMV.  It is more than fitting that the award has been upgraded to the Silver Star.  The event will take place at the World's Fair Park in Knoxville, TN at 10:00 AM.  I know that many of The Chosen Few and their families will be in attendance.  You can read CPL Hovater's Silver Star Citation here.



Also on May 28th a War Memorial will be dedicated at Washington Park, Cheboygan, MI from 2:00 PM until 5:00 PM.   This Memorial is for all those who have and continue to serve in the War on Terror, OIF & OEF as well as for those who have paid the ultimate sacrifice. SFC Matthew Blaskowski's name will be etched on the monument. SFC Blaskowski died as a result of a sniper's bullet during a firefight while serving at Firebase Vegas, Kunar Province, Afghanistan on 23 September 2007.  At the time of his death SFC Blaskowski was serving with the 173rd, 2-503rd Battle Company.


SFC Matthew Blaskowski

From Saturday May 28th through Monday May 30th many of the Battle Company ROCK Paratroopers will gather near Madison, WI to remember SGT Josh Brennan.  Josh died on 26 October 2007 as a result of  multiple wounds from an ambush in Afghanistan on 25 October 2007. 


SGT Joshua Brennan

While this coming Memorial Day weekend is a time set aside for us, as a nation, to remember all of our fallen heroes it is also a very difficult time for the widows, the families of the fallen and all of their friends.  Please keep them all in your prayers.

Friday, June 4, 2010

173rd, 2-503 Bravo Bulls (Vietnam 1965-66) Memorial Punch Bowl Ceremony

The Memorial Punch Bowl and Cups.  One cup for each "B" Company (Bravo = Vietnam, Battle = Iraq and Afghanistan) Hero who was Killed in Action and one for each surviving member of the Bravo Bulls.

As if the day hadn't been special enough I was invited to attend a dinner and Memorial Punch Bowl Ceremony with the Bravo Bulls.  Earlier in the day I had attended their Memorial wreath laying ceremonies at the Ranger Memorial and Airborne Walk.  After the first two events I dashed back to my hotel room to freshen up.  The wreath laying ceremonies were held in the morning but the hot Georgia sun coupled with the humidity were already pretty fierce.  I swung by to pick up COL Ostlund and off to the National Infantry Museum we went.


The National Infantry Museum

The National Infantry Museum, Patriot Park and the 173rd Memorial are a must see!

Bravo Bulls and wives


Bravo Bulls and wives

Bravo Bulls and wives

Bravo Bulls and wives

Bravo Bulls and wives

Cheryl, Terry, Daniela, Stan and Becky Blaskowski - Gold Star parents, widow, brother and sister in law of SFC Matthew Blaskowski, KIA Afghanistan 23 Sept 2007

Carol and LTC Roy Lombardo (Vietnam) and COL Bill Ostlund (2-503 Commander OEF VIII)


BG James Yarbrough, Former Commander of 173rd Airborne Brigade (2000-2002) and COL Bill Ostlund Deputy Commander 75th Ranger Regiment

As we were eating dinner COL Ostlund, who had been with us earlier but had to leave for the 173rd Memorial dinner, came into the room with a gentlemen.  LTC Lombardo went forward to greet them then introduced to us Brigadier General James Yarbrough.  BG Yarbrough was the Commander of the 173rd ABCT when it was reactivated in Vicenza, Italy in 2000.  He commented that it was almost 10 years to the day that the Brigade was reactivated in Italy.  He shared several stories with us about the events surrounding the day of the official ceremonies.

One story he shared was that on the day they uncased the colors and attached all of the ribbons there was a point when Major General Ellis Williamson (you really should go to that link and read about MG Williamson) was to pass the colors to BG Yarbrough but didn't seem to want to let go of them.  BG Yarbrough said he told MG Williamson that he would make sure that the history and the traditions of the Sky Soldiers were maintained.  It was only then that MG Ellis relinquished his grip on the colors.  (You can read a prior post of mine regarding MG Williamson here.

Another story BG Yarbrough told was about the day they were to jump the colors into Italy at Aviano airfield about an hour or so from Vicenza.  It was a stormy day.  Windy.  Rainy.  Low ceiling.  Everyone was geared up and ready to board the Air Force jets for the jump.  The Air Force personnel kept checking the weather data and it remained sketchy at best.  BG Yarbrough and his Paratroopers were determined to jump those colors in.  They loaded up and took off with the intent of flying out some distance in hopes the storm would pass the field and allow them acceptable weather for the jump.  (I apologize for my lack of specific details.  BG Yarbrough certainly told the story much better than I am).  Anyway, not long after they took off the ground personnel reported and opening in the weather and almost calm winds.  Apparently the Air Force personnel were skeptical that they could turn all of the jets around in such close proximity to the jump zone.  But they did.  The paratroopers jumped the colors in and all hell broke loose with the weather again.

It was quite a treat to have BG Yarbrough stop by to say hello and relate his stories to those of us at the dinner.
BG Yarbrough, COL Ostlund, LTC Lombardo (Former 173rd Brigade Commander, Battalion Commander and "B" Company Commander)

As a "sidebar" the following photo was taken in Vicenza, Italy in September 2008 at a Welcome Home party for the 2-503 after their deployment in OEF VIII.  LTC Lombardo flew to Italy to present the punch bowl shown below to then LTC Ostlund.  The punch bowl was owned by MG Ellis "Butch" Williamson and his wife.  Their daughter Nan asked LTC Lombardo to take it to Italy and present it to the ROCK.  Quite by coincidence the welcome home party and LTC Lombardo's trip were in the same window of time.  Definitely a "meant to be" moment.



After dinner LTC Lombardo approached the Bravo Bull's Memorial punch bowl.  With the assistance of one of the Bravo bulls he began to make the punch:

From each of three vials he added to the punch bowl soil from Landing zone Zulu, Zulu in Vietnam, soil from Iraq (location unknown) and soil from Afghanistan

He then added one bottle of cold beer - the designated beverage of the Paratrooper he said

Next he added a bottle of vodka.   This, he said, was the designated beverage of the NCOs

A bottle of Brandy was added to symbolize the affiliation between our Army and other affiliated Armies such as the Australians, New Zealanders, the Iraqi forces that have been stood up and the ongoing work to stand up the Afghan Army.

Three bottles of champagne were added.  One to symbolize WWII, one for Vietnam and one for the service of the 173rd Paratroopers in Iraq, Afghanistan and Kuwait.

Finally he added a bottle of red wine to symbolize the blood shed by the Sky Soldiers.

The turning over of the cups of those who were KIA and whose cups will never be used in honor of their memory

After the punch was made LTC Lombardo begain to read the list of names of all "B" Company (Bravo and Battle) who have been Killed in Action.  As each name was read one of the Bravo Bulls would come forward and turn that cup over symbolizing that no one would ever drink from it since the man (whose name is engraved on the cup) will never be there to use the cup.

Incredibly moving.


LTC Lombardo pouring the punch for each Bravo Bull in attendance.

After all of the names were read for those KIA in Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistand LTC Lombardo then read the names of all of the Bravo Bulls in attendance and announced that it is the largest group of Bravo Bulls to be together in many years.



LTC Lombardo giving a cup of punch to the Bravo Bull we had accidentally "found" just after the Memorial ceremony at the Airborne Walk earlier today

The toast by the Bravo Bulls to the fallen "B" Company Paratroopers

Once each of the man had their cup of punch they toasted the fallen "B" Company brothers and drank to their memory.

The Blaskowskis

After the formal toasting was complete they graciously (and I think for the first time) invited the wives and the rest of us to join them by bringing our glasses forward for punch.  They proposed a toast to their wives and family members.  The Blaskowskis and I had our own toast for Matt.

Here's to you Matt.  We miss you like hell!

Cheryl Blaskowski and me toasting the fallen including SFC Matthew Blaskowski and SGT Joshua Brennan and well as all Sky Soldiers from Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan

I have said it before and I will say it over and over again, I have been blessed and am incredibly fortunate for the opportunities I have had to participate in remembering, honoring and supporting the Sky Soldiers.  I am forever grateful to LTC Lombardo for including me in the events this Memorial Day weekend and on Veterans Day at Arlington in years passed.  I am also indebted to COL Bill Ostlund for allowing me to support his Paratroopers forward as well as the wounded.  Above all I am thankful, grateful and honored beyone words for the Gold Star families such as the Blaskowskis and Brennans for allowing me to be a part of their lives.  I love you all.

In the next few days I will write my final post about the weekend at Fort Benning.  On Tuesday 1 June I was present for the dedication of the 173rd Memorial.  Another exceptional day and memory.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

On Memorial Day the Vietnam Era 173rd, 2-503 Bravo Bulls Remember The Fallen at the Airborne Walk at Fort Benning, GA

After the wreath laying at the Ranger Memorial at Fort Benning, GA that I wrote about here we made our way to the Airborne Walk at Fort Benning to remember countless fallen brothers in arms.

LTC Lombardo calls for the 173rd, 2-503 Bravo Bulls to form up.


As the men stand in parade rest LTC Lombardo asks that we remember all of those who have gone before us - not only in combat but in their later years in life.  He mentions those who have passed away in the last few weeks and tells us about their many accomplishments in civilan life.  At times he would pause to collect himself and his thoughts.  Another poignant moment.

As I stood there listening to LTC Lombardo I remembered a phone call I made to his home during this past winter.  His lovely wife, Carol, answered the phone.  We exchanged greetings and I asked if I might speak to Roy.  I commented that I knew he had been a little under the weather lately and if he wasn't up to taking a phone call I understood - I was just calling to check on him.  Carol replied, "Oh he's just fine.  As a matter of fact he just climbed through an upstairs window and out onto the roof to clean the snow out of the satellite dish so we can get better reception."  I didn't know whether to laugh or admonish him.  I laughed.  What a man!  God Bless him.


LTC Roy Lombardo reminding us to keep those who have gone before us in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.

LTC Roy Lombardo making remarks as the men from Bravo Company, 2-503 (Vietnam 65-66) listen

LTC Roy Lombardo


When LTC Lombardo called for the playing of TAPS after his remarks one of the men stepped forward and played it from his phone as the others stood in salute to the fallen Airborne Heroes.


The 173rd Memorial marker at the Airborne Walk, Fort Benning, GA and the Memorial wreath laid by the Bravo Bulls.  Maybe other groups came later in the day but when we were there around 10:30 this was the only wreath.


Carol and Roy Lombardo

After the wreath laying ceremony concluded a number of the men and their wives posed for a group photo and individual photos in front of the airplane.  I missed the opportunity to take the group photo and regret that.

I had to run to my car to retrieve an item after the ceremony.  As I was walking back from the parking lot a van stopped and the gentleman driving rolled down his window to ask where the Officer's Club was.  I had no idea BUT....he was wearing a 173rd cap.  I motioned for LTC Lombardo to come over not knowing if he could assist the gentleman with directions (duh! of course he could) but figuring that they may know each other.  As it turned out the gentleman in the van (whose name I forgot to write down) was one of the Paratroopers that the Bravo Bulls had lost touch with over the years.  Talk about timing, coincidence and being in the right place at the right time!  Such a bonus.  LTC Lombardo invited him to the dinner later that afternoon at the Infantry Museum.


Two great Americans, Paratroopers, Commanders and Army Rangers for whom I have the utmost respect - LTC Roy Lombardo (Ret) and COL Bill Ostlund. There is no question my life is better for knowing these men, not only because of what they and so many others who have served have done to keep our nation safe, but also because of their dignity and honor.  And their great senses of humor! 


I reminded myself that I was fortunate for the opportunity to be with these men, their wives and family members to share this special moment.  I am so grateful.

On Memorial Day the Vietnam Era 173rd, 2-503 Bravo Bulls Remember The Fallen at the Ranger Memorial at Fort Benning, GA

Several weeks ago I was contacted by LTC Roy Lombardo (Ret) who graciously invited me to join the Vietnam era 173rd, 2-503 Bravo Bulls for their Memorial services at Fort Benning this Memorial Day weekend.  LTC Lombardo is member of the U S Army Ranger Hall of Fame.  He, along with thousands of our great Soldiers were sent to Okinawa, Japan to bring up the 173rd IN (ABN) and were the first to jump into Vietnam.  I have written about LTC Lombardo here (scroll down).  In the weeks leading up to Memorial Day I received 4 emails from LTC Lombardo telling of the deaths of four of the Bravo Bulls.  It was heartbreaking.

On Monday morning 31 May 2010, COL Bill Ostlund (former 173rd, 2-503 Battalion Commander and current Deputy Commander, 75th Ranger Regiment) and I met the Bravo Bulls at the Ranger Memorial on Fort Benning to remember two of their fallen comrades who were Army Rangers, SSG David Howard and SSG John Lopez.


The Ranger Memorial at Fort Benning


LTC Lombardo (Ret) invited COL Ostlund to say a few words as the Bravo Bulls prepared to form up and march to the Memorial.

It was heart warming to watch as COL Ostlund spoke to the Vietnam Veterans.  As I stood back I couldn't help but think about the day that the "torch" will be passed to men like COL Ostlund and many other "youngsters" to continue on the traditions of the Sky Soldiers from all eras and wars.  While it won't be for some time there is no doubt that the Sky Soldier traditions are very sacred, important and WILL be kept alive.

The Bravo Bulls, lead by LTC Lombardo, march to the site where they will lay the wreath in memory of SSG Howard and SSG Lopez


LTC Roy Lombardo remembering SSG Howard and SSG Lopez by telling stories he remembered about each of them.  Parts of the stories were about what each man was doing in battle when he died.  Other parts were entertaining remembrances of each man.


The 2-503 Bravo Bulls at parade rest as LTC Lombardo unveils the Memorial wreath while continuing to remember SSG Howard and SSG Lopez


2-503 Bravo Bulls

2-503 Bravo Bulls

LTC Lombardo after unveiling the Memorial Wreath at the Ranger Memorial, Fort Benning, GA

As LTC Lombardo continues to talk about SSG Howard and SSG Lopez one of them Bravo Bulls falls out of formation to place a flag in the wreath in memory of his battle buddy.  A very touching moment.

Bravo Bulls during TAPS

After LTC Lombardo concluded his remarks he commented that, "normally at this time a bugler would play TAPS.  But since we don't have a bugler we'll just say it."  LTC Lombardo began to say the words to TAPS.  He began, "Day is done. Gone the sun."  As his voice began to crack a couple of the men chimed in in song ♫ From the hills ♫ and at that point their voices broke with emotion but 2 or 3 more men picked up with ♫ from the lake, from the skies.  ♫  And more voices broke as others came in.  ♫ All is well.  Safely rest.  God is nigh. ♫  I had tears streaming down my face.  It was an incredibly poignant and honorable moment.  You could hear the wind blowing through the trees and the sound of the water running in the brook beneath the bridge we were standing on.  After about a minute LTC Lombardo dismissed the men.  They continued their silence briefly as they put an arm around one another, shook hands or just nodded their heads.  I cannot even begin to tell you how special the moment was.  I felt a bit like an interloper then realized that it was just as important for me to honor and remember these men even if I didn't know them.  They are American heroes and it is my duty (one I am HAPPY to participate in) to remember and thank them for their ultimate sacrifice.

The 173rd, 2-503 Vietnam Era Bravo Bulls who were in attendance. What a great photo!

I am grateful to these amazing men for allowing me to share this moment and these memories with them.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Memorial Day Weekend - Sunday 30 May 2010 - Hanging Out With 173rd, 2-503 Paratroopers

I was privileged to be a part of one of the most incredible weekends of my life.  Thousands of Paratroopers, family members and friends of past and present 173rd ABCT converged on Columbus, GA and Fort Benning for the dedication of the recently constructed 173rd Memorial at Patriot Park behind the new National Infantry Museum.  I have four posts to publish with pictures and comments of events over three days.

There were many groups who met on Sunday night around Columbus to raise a glass and toast their fallen comrades from Vietnam, OIF and OEF.  I joined a few of the 2-503 ROCK Paratroopers and their wives, finances and girlfriends as well as the Blaskowskis (Gold Star family) and widows of the fallen.

We toasted the memory of the fallen

Toasting the memory of the Fallen - TerryBlaskowski, Stan Blaskowski, Daniela Blaskowski, Me, Pitts, Cheryl Blaskowski, Queck, Hissong, Hayes and Delaney

We visited with friends

Amy, Pitts, Hissong and Delaney

We ate ribs and snacks

Terry, Cheryl, Daniela, Becky and Stan Blaskowski (family of KIA SFC Matthew Blaskowki)

We toasted again and again

Queck, Denton and Delaney

One of "us" got into some cross dressing

Mongo - REALLY?

We showed our love for each other over and over

Denton, me, Queck

Denton and Queck

Terry, Stan and Daniela Blaskowski

Adam and Judy

Danielle and Daniela - two amazing and VERY strong women!  Widows of SSG Mark Schafer and SFC Matthew Blaskowski

Then somehow the party moved outside.  OK, we got a wee bit too loud.  Go figure!

Brian and Brooke

Pitts, Delaney, Denton and Hissong

Hissong, me, Pitts and Delaney

Hayes, me, Denton

Pitts and Denton - showing their beer bellies???

We ran into someone for whom we all have great respect

Denton, Hissong, Carey, Ostlund, Pitts, Delaney, Hayes, Rodriguez and Queck

A great night all the way around.  We left in the wee hours of the morning looking forward to the events that lay ahead.

THE END

Queck hauling Denton off to the car